From: Isidore of Pelusium, monk
To: An unnamed person
Date: ~410 AD
Context: Isidore marvels at the insatiability of those who receive benefits eagerly and return nothing — and the servility such behavior reveals.
I greatly marvel at the insatiability and servility of those who devour every benefit offered to them but do not think it necessary to return anything in kind. They accept with open hands and close them immediately afterward. They have reduced the whole economy of generosity to a one-way transaction.
This is not merely ungrateful — it is self-revealing. The person who always receives and never gives has told you something definitive about what they think of themselves and of those around them. Generosity is not a loss; it is the proof that you consider yourself to have something real to offer. The man who hoards every benefit and spreads none is confessing that he either has nothing worth giving or is afraid that giving will expose the poverty he has been hiding.
Context:Isidore marvels at the insatiability of those who receive benefits eagerly and return nothing — and the servility such behavior reveals.
I greatly marvel at the insatiability and servility of those who devour every benefit offered to them but do not think it necessary to return anything in kind. They accept with open hands and close them immediately afterward. They have reduced the whole economy of generosity to a one-way transaction.
This is not merely ungrateful — it is self-revealing. The person who always receives and never gives has told you something definitive about what they think of themselves and of those around them. Generosity is not a loss; it is the proof that you consider yourself to have something real to offer. The man who hoards every benefit and spreads none is confessing that he either has nothing worth giving or is afraid that giving will expose the poverty he has been hiding.
Modern English rendering for readability. See the 19th-century translation or original Latin/Greek for scholarly use.